IBM set the gown code: that's what we was wearing. You always think I will return it later for a refund but never do, you want to yourself "it looked fantastic in the store" as a result it ends up in your wardrobe either way.
Don't be shy about telling him what pleases you! https://Wiki.Roboco.co/index.php/How_Prefer_A_Wedding_Band_For_One_Person