If you would like that girl to give time, then show her just how special you believe she is. Jesus mentioned something about not worrying about money, I overlook the exact quote but food something like, "God provides for all the birds, don't you think He offers you usually?". http://E-Hp.info/mitsuike/4-bbs/bbs/m-123y.cgi?id=1&post=1&&comment=000587